Family psychologist's advice to parents on raising good and intelligent children.

Raising children begins before their birth. If parents want to have a good intelligent child, they must be ready to raise him from the birth of the child. It is important that parents, together with the child, correctly go through different periods of his development. If parents did not have time to deal with the child and begin to discipline the child after the age of 16, then the child will become their enemy or will deceive them. The habits of the parents, both bad and good, turn into the defects of the children. If the relationship between the mother and the child does not work out, then the whole life of the child does not work out either. Sometimes there is no respect for the parents in the family. And this will also have bad consequences for everyone.

The biggest problem of parents and a question for a psychologist is the problem of infantilism. Most of the problems of family relations, including between parents and children, lie in the mistakes of raising children, namely their untimely exit from childhood. Children do not move from the level of childhood at 6-7 years to the level of service and respect for their parents. And as a result, we get an extremely serious problem of infantilism. Advice from a family psychologist to parents regarding infantilism in children: "it is important to help the child form good qualities and character by the age of 16." If you miss the period up to 16 years, then it will be expensive and very difficult to establish a relationship with the child, even with very good psychologists.

Parents take information from various sources to raise their children. A good option is to consult experienced specialists (parents and psychologists) who already have adult children. Psychologist's advice to parents on raising children "every child is special and therefore from birth to adulthood it is advisable to consult with a psychologist-analyst". If by the age of 16 the parents have not raised the child and have not established a good relationship with him, then even with very good psychologists it will be very expensive and practically impossible to do this. Regarding raising children, the following advice from a psychologist can be given to parents: "it is much more effective and much cheaper to use the knowledge of a psychologist during the period of raising a child up to 16 years."

Now, for some seventeen-year-olds, there is no need to get married in order to have sex. Previously, girls were forced to grow up. Most of them simply had no choice in the matter of growing up or not. Sex became available mainly to adult men who could already offer to marry. The problem of male infantilism is becoming more serious every year. The reasons are different: an only child, upbringing without a father, upbringing by a grandmother. The main reason is upbringing without knowledge of how to do it correctly. Useful advice from a psychologist to girls about the infantilism of young people: "It is worth remembering that the main problem of infantilism is the lack of responsibility."

Free advice from psychologists of antiquity on raising wise children: "Only that which is strong and reliable in a person is what was absorbed into his nature in the first period of his life." The worst thing that young people can learn is frivolity. Because the latter gives rise to those pleasures, including the development of vice. Democritus wrote "There can be intelligent young men and stupid old people. For it is not time that teaches thinking, but early upbringing and nature."